If anybody knows where you can get these I would be in their debt! There are a few other connectors that folks have said work or might work, but I personally haven't seen them. This has been the most frustrating part of the whole project, with out a doubt. It's a stupid 14 pin plastic connector!!! And we only need 5 pins in it! Right now I have an RJ-45 connector wired into my car, and I interface my consult hardware box to my car via a standard CAT5 cable.